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1 Corinthians 7 (Part 3)

Yes, Lord! My life is in YOUR hands.

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THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS

“The gift of singleness,” a phrase often used to describe a person who has spent many years unmarried.  I’ve heard this terminology used at times as though this “gift” were some sort of repellant for natural desires and a booster shot for celibacy.  A few years ago, this idea was put aside in my thinking as I viewed a video of Elisabeth Elliott.

Elisabeth spoke of her life with the Lord, mentioning that, for many years, she recognized that she had been given the “gift of singleness” by the Lord.  When she met Jim Elliott, he too had been enjoying the same gift for quite some time.  During the course of their growing friendship, the Lord gave them both, what Elisabeth described as the “gift of marriage”–to one another.

Not long after the couple went to serve as missionaries to Indians in South America, Jim was killed by those he served.  Through her grieving, Elisabeth recognized and acknowledged that the Lord had given her the “gift of singleness” again.  She received that gift and continued to serve her Lord faithfully.

After some time, the Lord gave Elisabeth the “gift of marriage” again.  During her marriage to this man, he became ill and died.  Once again Elisabeth received the “gift of singleness” from her Lord.  More time passed and she was again handed the “gift of marriage” by the Lord.  The man she was married to at the time was introduced on the video.  Both he and Elisabeth continue to serve the Lord.

Hearing Elisabeth tell her story has shed a different light on the phrase “gift of singleness.” It is a gift–something given by one party to another; something that can be received or rejected by the party to whom it is given. If the gift is rejected and no other is offered, the intended recipient is left to frantically search for what s/he would rather have. In receiving the gift, one’s attitude is a key to the effect of the gift.  To receive the gift with discontent leaves one to mope and whine, because of not getting that for which one had hoped.  Receiving the gift with a thankful heart, however, allows it to be opened and enjoyed, used and shared.

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights…” (James 1:17)  Our Father is the giver of all good things, supplying all our needs “according to His riches in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:19)  One’s marital status is not an indicator of character or a measure of worth.  Single or married, either state is a gift from our Father, given to us for our enjoyment and for our use in glorifying Him.

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Father, how wondrous it is to know that YOU are the Giver of all good things, that You have our best in mind with each thing You bless us with. Thank You for this gift You’ve given me.  Supply Your grace to receive it and use it for Your glory and to lead others into an intimate relationship with You, as You continue to make me just like Jesus.  Ame

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